Secret Valentine

A Secret Santa for Valentine’s Day. Everyone draws one person to surprise, and finds out by breaking the seal on a love letter.

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How will everyone find out who they got?

  1. 1Add everyone below and tap Draw names.
  2. 2You get a private link for each person. Send it by WhatsApp, text or email.
  3. 3Each person opens their own love letter on their own phone, whenever they like. Wishlists included.

Type a name and press Enter, or paste a whole list (one per line). Organizing and playing too? Add yourself.

Free · No sign-up · Even you won’t see who drew whom

How it works

  1. Add everyone taking part, including yourself if you’re playing.
  2. Tie couples together so they don’t draw each other.
  3. Set a budget and the exchange date (usually February 14).
  4. Draw names. Each person gets one secret Valentine to surprise.
  5. Send private links by WhatsApp or text, or pass one phone around.
  6. Everyone breaks the wax seal on their letter and writes a wishlist.

FAQ

What is a Secret Valentine?
It works like Secret Santa: names are drawn in secret and each person surprises one other person with a small Valentine’s gift or note.
Is it only for couples?
Not at all. It’s made for friend groups, offices and classrooms. Use “can’t draw” rules to keep couples apart.
What’s a good Secret Valentine budget?
$10–$25 works for most groups. Sweets, flowers, cozy socks and handwritten notes are classics.
Can the organizer see who drew whom?
No. Even the organizer only sees who has opened their letter.